We live in a culture that is all about self-promotion and being louder and larger. It’s almost as if the more attention you can draw towards yourself, the better you are by some invisible yet widely regarded ranking system. This is reflected in our obsession with social media likes, famous figures, and conformity to popular ideas and trends. We are seeking to be noticed and seen. We want to be different, special, and set apart, and at the same time we want everyone to like us.
Tozer, in his book God’s Pursuit of Man, postulates that one of the main roots of pride (self) is the need for social approval. The desire for the applause of man, rather than the approval of God.
This need for approval is misplaced. We are created to noticed, but not by the world. The world will never be able to satisfy our deep longings for approval; we are chasing dust. Even if we do receive recognition and praise from man, it will not last forever, and once again we will have to strive and strain to earn it for a fleeting moment again. It’s a never-ending game that leads to exhaustion and stress. It is not worth it.
There is One who has approved of us from the beginning, and we do not even realize that He is the only One whose approval means anything at all. What we are seeking from men can actually only be found in Christ, who knows the depths of our souls and our hearts, and sees us more than we would ever care to be seen. He is the One we can seek to please, and should seek to please, all of our days–because He is already pleased. We don’t have to try to earn His attention or His love; it is freely given. Our efforts to please Him blossom out of the knowledge that He is already delighted with us. It is the cycle of Life, and leads to the fruits of Heaven.
Friends, we are noticed. We are seen. We can stop trying to impress the world.
And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.
Colossians 3:17